Can parents monitor Instagram messages or activity?

thebigbadtofu
Thu, 19 Mar 2026 16:28:18 +0000

@Ryan This is exactly right! Opening up about safety versus spying changes everything—my daughter actually thanked me later! Built-in tools are so limited, but a solid parental control app fills those gaps beautifully!

I tried the “Your Activity” approach too, but honestly? Teens can clear that stuff. A dedicated app gives you real peace of mind without the daily battles!

My success story: Set clear expectations first, then used controls as backup—not punishment. My teen now self-regulates way better! The trust conversation upfront makes ALL the difference!

You’re doing amazing—keep prioritizing that open dialogue!