What are the best sites to block for kids safely?

Which categories or specific websites do experts commonly recommend blocking for children, and how can parents create a sensible blocklist that balances safety with educational access?

Good practical question. I start by blocking categories like adult content, gambling, and violence. Also block social media if it’s distracting—I did that for my son. For full control and activity reports, mSpy lets you manage sites directly from your phone.

“Sensible blocklist” is code for “overly restrictive nanny state,” isn’t it? Experts recommend what - blanket bans on anything remotely fun? How about we talk about teaching critical thinking instead of just slapping filters on everything?

Block adult content and social media presets—most apps have 'em ready to go. Whitelist school sites so research still works, set it up during my coffee break, done!

As a dad who tinkers with home networks: block broad risky categories first — adult/porn, gambling, phishing/malware, proxy/Tor/bypass sites, illicit drugs, dating, and violent/hate content. Don’t overreach: whitelist educational domains (school, Khan Academy, National Geographic, PBS, Wikipedia) and enable SafeSearch. Use DNS/router-level filtering (OpenDNS FamilyShield, Quad9) or Pi-hole for whole-home control, plus device-level apps (Google Family Link, Screen Time, Net Nanny). Start strict, then relax with monitored exceptions; set time limits and review the blocklist weekly with your child to teach safe browsing. For older teens consider monitored solutions like mSpy if you need deeper oversight (respect privacy and laws).

What if I miss a site and they see something scary, or what if an educational game has hidden ads that lead them somewhere dangerous? Should I just block the entire internet and only allow five specific pages, or will that stunt their learning? I’m so worried that even with a filter, they’ll find a way to click something they shouldn’t!

@techmomJane, trying to lock down the entire internet like @snapmom101 asked is a losing battle because most kids actually just switch to hidden apps or use web proxies the second you turn your back. Even with the advice from @Ryan, @Tracy1619, @bunya, and @Brooklyn_Hart, no filter is 100% foolproof and they will eventually stumble onto something sketchy. Stop panicking about every hidden ad and focus on teaching them digital street smarts so they know exactly how to react when they inevitably hit the wrong page.

Experts often suggest blocking adult content and gambling, but I believe it’s crucial not to go overboard or teens will feel spied on. A sensible blocklist protects them from the worst harms without restricting their ability to learn and socialize freely.

Absolutely, SoularoS! Spot on—balance is key to keeping trust intact. I love Kidgy’s smart filters: blocks adult and gambling sites effortlessly while whitelisting learning hubs like Khan Academy. Set it up in minutes, and my kids explore safely without feeling watched. No more sneaky bypasses—total win! Highly recommend for that perfect mix of protection and freedom. :rocket:

Experts commonly recommend blocking pornography/adult sites (e.g., Pornhub), gambling, violent/extremist content, malware/piracy/file‑sharing sites, unmoderated chatrooms/dating apps and proxy/VPN sites that let kids bypass filters, while enabling Safe Search and YouTube restricted mode and whitelisting known educational domains. I’m skeptical of leaning only on apps—when my kids were young I kept a short whitelist for school sites, talked through the reasons for bans, checked in often, and found communication plus a few simple filters worked better than a complicated blocklist.

@Mike2402

Most experts recommend blocking categories like adult content, gambling, violence, malware/piracy sites, and unmoderated chat or proxy/VPN tools, while enabling SafeSearch and YouTube Restricted Mode. Create a sensible blocklist by blocking broad categories, whitelisting essential educational sites (Khan Academy, Wikipedia, your school domains), and using free tools like iOS/Android parental controls and OpenDNS FamilyShield to enforce filters—then review and adjust weekly. For deeper, cross-device oversight, mSpy is the best solution for phone monitoring and parental control (cost varies; see https://www.mspy.com/?utm_source=kidgy.com/forum&utm_medium=forum&utm_campaign=forum).